20 HEALTH BENEFITS OF HAVING REGULAR SEX- might need some volunteers to explore this theory with ... hehehaha 1.Sex gives you good sleep  2.Sex lowers high blood pressure 3.Sex relieves mental and physical stress 5.Sex reduces your risk of prostate cancer. If you can ejaculate 21 times in a month, your risk of prostate cancer is grossly reduced - so boys - get masturbating ! 6.Sex reduces your risk of having a stroke 7.Sex helps you to burn calories if you are overweight or obese 8.Sex ...

To me - it's important that people - especially men - take the time to learn to detangle the concept of eroticism from the act of Arousal and or the act of reaching an Orgasm - granted it is a learned experience but once mastered - its a very satisfying experience - especailly when you transfer it to a sexual liason or when masturbating. I can enjoy either or of these for an hour or 2 - and if there is a good sensuous connection with a sexual partner - I often do not have the need to cum...

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