Lingam Touch is? | EnigmaticBodyMassage / Massage for Men / Man to Man Massage / Gay Male Massage / Avondale, Auckland, New Zealand.

Massage for Men.

Man to Man Massage.

Gay Male Massage Therapist.

Giving Focused Sensuous Relaxation

Massage for Men since 2011.

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Diploma of Massage.

Relaxation Massage Certificate.

Wellpark Natural Therapy College,

Auckland. N.Z.

"Bodywork is an art that transcends

the boundaries of touch; it is a

symphony of skilled hands, guided

by intuition and empathy, dancing

upon the canvas of the human body"

Uniquely Enigmatic Touch.

No matter what your reason is to consider booking with me - rest assured my style and my overall approach to Massage with Men in Mind - is on delivering a naturally sensuous style of Focused Meditative Relaxation - and as such I give Massage with a relaxed open mindset around sensuous touch - naturism and the normal bodily reactions of men - that do naturally occur during touch of this nature - and the info on this page is designed to help you clarify the style on offer and the terms I use - along with my view on what I consider simply to be naturally sensuous touch based inclusions - with a strong focus on Relaxation Massage with Men in Mind.

This page includes:

What Massage Oil I use and its Health Benefits.
A brief description of What Lomi Lomi and Swedish style Massage is.
What I consider to be the key differences between Tantra and Tantric.
What is Lingam Touch and how it relates to mens mindset regarding Arousal and Orgasm.
What is Naturism and Sensuous Touch about?
The Importance of Feeling Comfortable during a Relaxation Massage.

For a brief Bio of my life experiences of recent years and why / how I draw from these in the giving of Relaxation Massage with Men in mind - see - Bio - focused on My Life Experiences

The Massage Oil I use is ?

Grapeseed Oil - a lightweight carrier oil - It does not clog pores and absorbs easily without leaving a greasy residue - while providing excellent glide and skin hydration - It is highly moisturizing and well-suited for a variety of massage techniques and skin types.

Key properties include:

Texture & Absorption: thin and non-greasy - making it perfect for Relaxation Massage.
Nutrient Rich: Contains high concentrations Omega-6 - Vitamin E and Polyphenols.
Skin & Tissue Health: Exhibits anti-inflammatory - antioxidant and antimicrobial qualities that help soothe skin - protect against environmental stressors - and support skin barrier repair.
Aromatherapy Ready: Almost entirely odorless - it seamlessly carries and blends with essential oils without altering their scent - Note - I do not use Essential Oils when Massaging.

What is Lomi Lomi and Swedish Massage?

Lomi Lomi style Massage.

is a traditional Hawaiian full body style of Massage - using long flowing strokes with hands - forearms and elbows movements that mimick calming movements of nature so as to release tension and improve circulation - while creating a strong focus on a holistic yet focused relaxation and healing for the whole person - body - mind and spirit.

Swedish style Massage.

is a gentle style of full body massage known for its strong focus on relaxation - that uses long flowing massage strokes - mixed with some light almost rhythmic style - and stronger manipulating style massage movements - so as to relieve muscle tension and improve cirulation - while calming the nervous system and releasing body tension and lift overall wellbeing.

Overall both styles of Massage Movements are similar - and help create what is a nurturing - grounding and intuitive style of sensuous touch - so as to release energetic mindfulness and physical body blockages.

What is Tantra verses Tantric ?

As I refer to the style of Massage on offer @ EnigmaticBody - as delivering a hint of Tantra - I need to distinguish what I consider are the key differences to what most men refer to when they think of Tantra - which seems to be that any touch that involves Lingam or Naturism is Tantric - which is not the case - so the easiest explaination I can think of to help clarify what each is - is as follows ..

Traditional Tantra is ..

the ritual practise of exploring our Inner Sensuous self via Touch or Calming sessions that are about an enlightenment of lifting your Inner Spirit - such as Yoga - Mediation - Relaxation Massage or even spending a day at a Naturist Beach - to me - all of these explore our Sensuous self and body without the need to be sensual or sexual - and easily translate into the style of Massage on offer @ EnigmaticBody.

Modern/Western - Tantric is..

Often narrowly focused on a sole emphasis on the practise of Sensual or even a sexual intimacy that is based on the exhange of Sensual Energy - while using conscious touch experiences where Naturism is shared - like Nuru style Massage Movements (Nude Body to Body) - or - when the Touch has a strong Sensual Intent of delivering a sole focus on teaching how to extend the time it takes to Orgasm or improve one Sexual skills - To me - The Tantric Practise places more emphasis on exploring a higher level of Erotic Sensual Ecstatic Experience - therefore @ EnigmaticBody - I do not consider anything on offer to fit within the Tantric Realm as described in this paragraph.

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What is The Lingam?

This is an Ancient Sanskrit Tantra term that simply translates to mean " Wand of Light."

In English, this is better known as - The Male Genitalia.

It is said in these Ancient Sanskrit beliefs - that this natural inclusion of Massage for Men Awakens & Arouses the Kundalani Energy within - in simple terms - brings the sensuousness from within the body to the body's surface - which to me means - it simply helps to encourage the slow release of deep tension throughout the body - while overall creating a blissful and sensuous yet natural touch inclusion throughout the Relaxation time.

What is Lingam Touch - during Relaxation Massage?

Before I really get into this topic here - I would like to take the opportunity to be clear and frank with you and clarify - that for me - what I consider to be a natural inclusion of Lingam Touch is not about that 1 topic that most men seem to expect in Massage - "getting off / release" - or what ever you may refer to both Arousal and Orgasm as or infact any act of a Sexual or Tantric in Nature - as To me - Sensual or Sexual Tantric Relaxation Connection is something very different to that of a Sensuous Tantra style of Relaxation Massage - and although in a manner of speaking - my view on this is somewhat relaxed on this topic - what maybe perceived as a full Sexual Service or as Sexual Tantric Massage Connection - is not something I have ever advertised or offered - nor will I do so in the future.

Am I realistic with what this topic is for most men - absolutely I am - and that is why - on this page - I take the time to expand on this topic and the terms I use throughout the website to describe what is on offer @ EnigmaticBody - with an aim to help clarify for you - what my view of this sensuous practise is about - and therefore - I consider that it is important that before choosing me as your Natural Massage Healer - you take the time to read this page and even the section lower on this page - The Importance of Feeling Comfortable - as to me these will aid in describing why I consider Lingam Touch - to simply be a blissful sensuous inclusion towards the last quarter of the overall Massage Time - that is about giving all of the body the same respect - which to me - during a sensuous style of Massage with Men in Mind - greatly aids the overall focus and its intent of being a Sensuous Meditative Relaxation.

The natural inclusion of Lingam Touch is approx 12 minutes long.

If you prefer to have the Massage without the inclusion of Lingam Touch - then it is an easy change to deliver more of a hint of - however please note - this does need to be decided before the massage begins - as once I begin - I tend to immerse myself in the giving of the Sensuous Relaxation - and any change of mindset during the massage - may hinder the overall flow of the Massage - and therefore the intent of the Relaxation.

Note - the use of draping is also possible - see the notes under Naturism.

Firstly - the question - that I am often asked ...

"Is Release / Getting Off or Orgasm included as a given?"

It seems that when Naturism and Lingam Touch are inclusions of Sensuous Based Touch of any kind - that the perception of what occurs as a certainty - seems to be for most men - that this must lead to a mindset of the Touch being Sexual or Tantric in nature - and therefore the mindset gains a thought process that generally gives a certainty that a - Release / Rub-n-Tug / Getting Off / Orgasm - what ever you want to refer to it as - will 100% occur.

Now during the Massage - the inclusion of Lingam Touch leans more to - that during Relaxation Massage of this style these are not given with a Sexual or Tantric mindset as such - while at the same time also considering things like Arousal and Orgasm simply being normal and natural Sensuous needs for Men during any form of Sensuous Touch - therefore it is important for me to distinguish the difference.

So - my reply to the question - "Is Release / Getting Off or Orgasm included as a given?" - is always Yes and No - yes it may occur and yet it might not - as there are a number of reasons it may or may not occur during the Massage.

Keep reading guys ...

One reason I find Orgasm does occur is ...

Firstly - Arousal and Orgasm when the Lingam is given any form of focused touch is simply normal and natural - so if these happens - its okay.

To me - the most common reason these occur during a Massage is that - Most Men regularly Masturbate - and lets face it - this is usually with a sole focus of Orgasm in mind and it occuring quickly - so in turn this does not train the body and or mind to extended the time it takes to Orgasm - which simply translates to during a focused Lingam Touch inclusion - the same will occur as its normal for the reciepient - and that is normal - natural and okay.

So lets take a moment to explore when Arousal and Orgasm do not occur ...

To me - Orgasm is not actually needed to help achieve a deeply meditative relaxation - that is the role of the overall Relaxation Massage - however consideration does need to be given - that for some men - the whole style of Massage and or the inclusion of Lingam Touch being given by another man - may be a new experience - and there maybe a little nervousness present - or - maybe there is a medical reason that affects both Arousal and Orgasm not occuring - which by the way is more common than most men think - eg: Prostate Issues or you are taking medication that affects this - and that is normal - natural and okay.

To me - both Arousal & Orgasm are simply considered normal and natural inclusions of the style of Massage I offer - after all these 2 things are simply bodily reactions that most men may experience during any kind of Sensuous Touch - add in that in my mindset I find when these do occur - they simply help the receiver relax and be themselves - and therefore the overall intent of the relaxation simply occurs with greater ease - so Yes in a manner of speaking - I do encourage them to occur - however I will note here that neither of these should be the receivers sole focus - or - for that matter be an expectation that these are a 100% a given - as thinking too much or having an expectation that these will occur - actually distracts from the overall intent of the Massage - which is a meditative and focused relaxation for you.

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What is Naturism & Sensuous Touch is about during a Relaxation Massage...

To me - Naturism is a naturally holistic inclusion of everyday life - as it is one of the most natural things we can do - and besides we are all arrive into this world in a state of Naturism.

When I can - I often roam about at home enjoying Naturism - although I have to say here - these days not so much now that I am living in an Apartment Complex and closing curtains during the day is a pet dislike of mine - but most evenings I strip off and relax with a vino and a good movie or book. - So I guess to get my Naturism fix in summer now - you may find me @ my local Naturist Beach a little more than I have been in recent years - while enjoying the freedom of naked dips in the ocean - so refreshing while loosing those ugly winter tan lines.

Naturism for you during the Massage is simply about ensuring the flow of the Massage is smooth throughout the Relaxation - while allowing a little bit of mutual Sensuous Touch throughout the Massage simply helps what is a naturally sensuous response for most men during this style of Relaxation Massage - and to me these simply help create a space of Meditative Calmness - This must be mindful of ensuring that the space we share at the time of the Massage - remains a safe and non-judgemental space within the realms of Sensuous Relaxation - with Men in Mind.

If you are uncomfortable with being fully Naked / Nude in front of others - the use of draping is possible - simply ask at anytime during the massage - as I have a blanket under you / over the therapy table @ all times - and can easily place this over you - however I will say here - that this may inhibit the natural flow of the Massage and therefore decrease the Sensuous Touch Focus of the overall Relaxation Intent - also to note - you still need to be Naked / Nude under the draping and 100% of the body won't be covered @ all times - as areas of your body while been massaged need to be uncovered - such as Glutes / Legs / Inner Thighs and back.

Do I give the Massage in Naturism as well ?

Generally for first visits I tend to remain fully clothed - so as to in manner of speaking give a sense of professionalism - However as I believe mutual Naturism helps add to the ambience of the overall Relaxation Calmness - while helping the receiver to be more at ease during the Massage - I will often give the Massage in partial Naturism - wearing only a Dry T Singlet Top - as I need to be aware of forming a body sweat barrier from me to you. Please note though - that me in any state of Naturism should not be an expectation of the Massage Time.

To Summarize Lingam Touch and Naturism ...

So now to just to confuse you about everything I have said on this page so far - I guess I need to say here - Does this mean that as the Relaxation Massage Therapist or Natural Healer - that I don't experience sensuous thoughts or arousal myself ? - Honestly - as a Gay Man - I would be 100 % remiss - if I said that I don't ever - so yes of course I do and I will say again - that to me - this is simply a natural and normal bodily reaction for Men during Sensuous Touch.

So it seems to be - that a sensuous style of Massage - that is naturally inclusive of Lingam Touch & Naturism - is one of those things - that it is full of contraindications - and when combined with the many ways - that this style of Sensuous Massage is portrayed in Media Forms - individual perception does dictate...

"It is this - and - it is that - all at the same time."

The Importance of Feeling Comfortable during a Relaxation Massage ...

Before the Massage Commences ...

To help you feel comfortable - when you arrive and before we commence the Massage - I will always give time for a brief chat - during which I may simply catch up with you - or go over any Wellness matters I may feel need a little discussion - plus this is an opportunity for you to freely discuss any matter that maybe about the reason you have booked - regardless of how unique you may think it is - it is important to let me know - so I am aware of this throughout the Massage - I will add here that this is with confidentiality & only if you are comfortable to do so - and you can be assured - that I will do my utmost to be mindful and accommodating of our conversation during the Massage.

The following is said with a warmheartfelt kind of vibe ...

In return - when booking with me - I ask that you be considerate of - that even though I give the Massage with a Relaxed Sensuous Mindfulness - it is important for me to say here - that consideration needs to be given to the naturally sensuous aspects of this the overall style of Massage - and that the reasons for and the reactions to this style of Massage Touch are different for everybody - add in that for me - when giving Sensuous based Relaxation Massage - I consider the Sensuous Aspects to simply be natural inclusions of - simply helping to encourage the slow release of deep rooted tension throughout the whole body while being mindful of what most Men consider or expect during sensuous touch of this style.

Which leads me to the No 1 question I am asked ...

is this a full Sexual Service?

If you havn't already established this from the way I describe these natural inclusions throughout the website - then to be somewhat blunt and to the point here - the answer is simply - No.

So to remind you of my statement earlier on this page - Why is this my view of what is on offer? To me - Sensual or Sexual Tantric Relaxation Connection is something very different to that of a Sensuous Tantra style of Relaxation Massage - and although in a manner of speaking - my view on this is somewhat relaxed on this topic - what maybe perceived as a full Sexual Service or as Sexual Tantric Massage Connection - is not something I have ever advertised or offered - nor will I do so in the future.

Therefore I respectfully state here ...

that if after you have viewed the content of this website and you have read this section - and you are still viewing what is on offer - with a mindset of - or - an expectation that reflects the Massage having a sole focus on being sensual / sexual - or for that matter having a sole focus on The Naturism or The Lingam Touch Aspects of - then I can honestly say here - with my hand on my heart - that I am not the right Massage Therapist - or as I prefer to say - Natural Healer for you.

While I am here - during Sensuous Massage - it is important that the personal sensuous boundaries of each person are respected at all times - and in instances where I feel that this does not occur - or - when requests to refocus the mindfulness within the context of the Relaxation Aspects of the Massage are ignored - and this maybe either during the booking process or during the booking time - then @ my discretion - I may decline to accept any booking or for that matter end a Massage during the booking itself.

Thank-you for your understanding.

Namaste

Glenn

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