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Massage for Men.

Man to Man Massage. 

Gay Male Massage Therapist.

Availability Varies on

a day x day basis - Not

avail everyday - It is best

to see this link for times

by day and date - May 

change at short notice.

Diploma of Massage. 

Relaxation Massage Certificate. 

Wellpark Natural Therapy College,

Auckland. N.Z.

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Uniquely Enigmatic Touch.​​​​​​

No matter what your reason is to consider booking with me - rest assured my style and my overall approach to Massage with Men in Mind - is on delivering a naturally sensuous style of Focused Meditative Relaxation - and as such I give Massage with a relaxed open mindset around sensuous touch - naturism and the normal bodily reactions of men - that do naturally occur during touch of this nature - and the info on this page is designed to help you clarify the style on offer and the terms I use - along with my view on what I consider simply to be naturally sensuous touch based inclusions  - with a strong focus on Relaxation Massage with Men in Mind.

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This page includes: ​

  • A brief description of What Lomi Lomi and Swedish style Massage is.

  • What is Lingam Touch and how it relates to mens mindset regarding Arousal and Orgasm.

  • What is Naturism and Sensuous Touch about? ​

  • What Massage Oil I use and its Health Benefits.

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What is Lomi Lomi and Swedish Massage?

Lomi Lomi style Massage.

is a traditional Hawaiian full body style of Massage - using long flowing strokes with hands - forearms and elbows movements that mimick calming movements of nature so as to release tension and improve circulation - while creating a strong focus on a holistic yet focused relaxation and healing for the whole person - body - mind and spirit.  ​

Swedish style Massage.

is a gentle style of full body massage known for its strong focus on relaxation - that uses long flowing massage strokes - mixed with some light almost rhythmic style - and stronger manipulating style massage movements - so as to relieve muscle tension and improve cirulation  - while calming the nervous system and releasing body tension and lift overall wellbeing. 

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Overall both styles of Massage Movements are similar  - and help create what is a nurturing - grounding and intuitive style of sensuous touch - so as to release energetic mindfulness and physical body blockages. ​​​​

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What is The Lingam?​

This is an Ancient Sanskrit Tantra term that simply translates to mean " Wand of Light."

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In English, this is better known as  - The Male Genitalia. 

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It is said in these Ancient Sanskrit beliefs - that this natural inclusion of Massage for Men Awakens & Arouses the Kundalani Energy within - in simple terms - brings the sensuousness from within the body to the body's surface - which to me means  - it simply helps to encourage the slow release of deep tension throughout the body - while overall creating a blissful and sensuous yet natural touch inclusion throughout the Relaxation time. 

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​​​What is Lingam Touch  - during Relaxation Massage? ​​​​

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Before I really get into this topic here - I would like to take the opportunity to be clear and frank with you and clarify - that for me - I consider the inclusion of Lingam Touch to simply be natural and normal - it is not about that 1 topic that most men seem to expect in Massage - "getting off / release" - if your mindset is on the Massage being of a Sexual Connection of any nature - then I will honestly say right now - I am not the right therapist for you - as to me that is something very different to that of the Sensuous style of Relaxation Massage on offer @ EnigmaticBody - and although I am 100% realistic about this style of Massage indicates for some men - what maybe perceived as a full Sexual Service - is not something I have ever offered - nor will I do so in the future. 

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Keep reading guys ... 

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Am I realistic with what this topic is for most men - absolutely I am - and that is why - on this page - I take the time to expand on this topic and the terms I use throughout the website to describe what is on offer @ EnigmaticBody - with an aim to help clarify for you - what my view of this sensuous practise is about - and therefore - I consider that it is important that before choosing me as your Natural Massage Healer - you take the time to read this page and even the section lower on this page - The Importance of Feeling Comfortable - as to me these will aid in describing why I consider Lingam Touch  - to simply be a blissful sensuous inclusion of the overall Massage Time that is about giving all of the body the same respect - which to me  - during a sensuous style of Massage with Men in Mind  - greatly aids the overall focus and its intent of being a Sensuous Meditative Relaxation. 

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Keep reading guys ... 

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The natural inclusion of Lingam Touch is approx 10 / 12 minutes long. 

If you prefer to have the Massage without the inclusion of Lingam Touch  - then it is an easy change to deliver more of a hint of Lingam Touch - however please note - this does need to be decided before the massage begins - as once I begin - I tend to immerse myself in the giving of the Sensuous Relaxation - and any change of mindset during the massage - may hinder the overall flow of the Massage - and therefore the intent of the Relaxation.

Note - the use of draping is also possible - see the notes under Naturism. ​​​​​

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 Firstly - a question I am often asked ... 

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"Is Release / Getting Off or Orgasm included as a given?"

 

Yes and No - as It seems that when Naturism and Lingam Touch are inclusions of Sensuous Based Touch of any kind - that the perception of what occurs as a certainty - seems to be for some men - that this must lead to a mindset of the Touch being Sexual in nature -  and therefore the mindset gains a thought process that generally gives a certainty that a - Release / Rub-n-Tug / Getting Off / Orgasm will 100% occur - however during the Massage - the inclusion of Lingam Touch leans more to considering things like Arousal and Orgasm to simply be normal and natural Sensuous needs for Men during any form of Sensuous Touch - therefore it is important for me to distinguish the difference of the Yes and No answers to the question. ​

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One reason I find Orgasm does occur is ...

Firstly - Arousal and Orgasm when the Lingam is given any form of focused touch  - these are simply normal reactions to the touch - so if these happen during the massage I consider them to simply be a normal and natural reaction - especially given the overall focus of the massage is not solely on these. 

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To me - the most common reason these occur during a Massage is that - Most Men regularly Masturbate - and lets face it - this is usually with a sole focus of achieving Orgasm and often with a mindset of this occuring quickly - so in turn this does not train the body and mind to extend the time it takes to Orgasm - which simply translates to during a focused Lingam Touch - the same will occur  - so to me that is simply a normal and natural reaction and that is okay.​​​​​

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While I am here - to train oneself to extend the time it takes to Orgasm - requires learning a technique called - edging or surging - as basically this teaches how to bring oneself close to Orgasm and stop / start  - so as to hold off Orgasm as long as one can - please note as this requires a vastly different mindset and interaction to one of focused relaxation massage - this is not part of the Massage I offer - please do not ask that question - if you wish to know more about this - simply google search  - how to self edge to hold off orgasm?  - and you will find a raft of info - good luck. 

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So lets take a moment to explore when Arousal and Orgasm do not occur ... 

To me - during a good Relaxation Massage - Orgasm is not actually needed to help achieve a deeply meditative relaxation - that is the role of the overall Relaxation Massage - however consideration does need to be given - that for some men - the whole style of Massage and or the inclusion of Lingam Touch being given by another man - may be a new experience - and there maybe a little nervousness present - or - maybe there is a medical reason that affects both Arousal and Orgasm not occuring - such as a prostate issue or medication - which by the way are more common than most men think  - so again - that is normal - natural and okay. ​ 

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To summarize - To me both Arousal & Orgasm are simply considered normal and natural inclusions of the style of Massage I offer -  add in that in my mindset I find when these do occur they simply help the receiver relax and be themselves - and therefore the overall intent of the relaxation simply occurs with greater ease - so yes in a manner of speaking - I do encourage these to occur - however I will note here that neither of these should be the receivers sole focus - or - for that matter be an expectation that these are a 100% a given - as thinking too much or having an expectation that these will occur - actually distracts from the overall intent of  the Massage - which is a meditative and focused relaxation for you. ​​​​​

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What is Naturism & Sensuous Touch is about during a Relaxation Massage?... ​

 

To me - Naturism is a naturally holistic inclusion of everyday life - as it is one of the most natural things we can do - and besides we are all arrive into this world in a state of Naturism. 

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Naturism for you during the Massage is no different to that of being a Nudist beach - it is simply  a natural part of the experience - which for Massage is about ensuring the flow of the Massage Movements are smooth and seamless throughout the Relaxation - while allowing a little bit of mutual Sensuous Touch throughout the Massage simply helps put the receiver at ease - and to me this simply helps to create a space of Meditative Calmness.   

If you are uncomfortable with Naturism / Naked / Nude - in front of others - the use of draping is possible   - simply ask at anytime during the massage - as I have a blanket under you  / over the therapy table @ all times - and can easily place this over you - however I will say here - that this may inhibit the natural flow of the Massage and therefore decrease the Sensuous Touch Focus of the overall Relaxation Intent  - also to note - you still need to be Naked / Nude under the draping and 100% of the body won't be covered @ all times  - as areas of your body while been massaged need to be uncovered - such as Glutes / Legs / Inner Thighs and back.   

 

Overall during a Massage of this style - there must be mindfulness of ensuring that the space we share at the time of the Massage - remains a safe and non-judgemental space within the realms of Sensuous Relaxation - with Men in Mind - therefore while I am here - I have to say - that I do not consider  - Naturism / being Nude  - with others on a beach / in a Spa or Sauna at the Gym or sharing a Sensuous Healing Session like Massage - anything remotely in the realm of being Sexual - and therefore in any situation where Naturism is involved  - mutual or otherwise - the personal boundaries of each individual must be respected to ensure that the experience remains a sensuous calming and completely natural experience for everybody - It actually frustrates me when I am simply relaxing at a nudist beach and some guy comes along and thinks it is open invitation to touch me or sit down close by and play with himself without asking - to me this act simply takes away from the normalness of Naturism. ​

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When I can  - I often roam about at home Nude  / Naked - although I have to say here - these days not so much now that I am living in an Apartment Complex and closing curtains during the day is a pet dislike of mine - and my medical condition has somewhat limited the physical activities that I used to do on a daily basis - like the Gym / Bike Riding / RPM-Spin - so my body has changed somewhat - with which I am not 100% comfortable - but regardless - most evenings @home - I strip off and relax with a vino and a good movie or a book - So I guess to get my Naturism fix in summer now - you may find me @ my local Naturist Beach a little more than I have been in recent years - while enjoying the freedom of Nude / Naked dips in the ocean - so refreshing while loosing those ugly winter tan lines.   

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Do I give the Massage in Naturism as well ?

Generally for first visits I tend to remain fully clothed  - so as to in manner of speaking give a sense of professionalism - However as I believe mutual Naturism helps add to the ambience of the overall Relaxation Calmness - while helping the receiver to be more at ease during the Massage - I will often give the Massage in partial Naturism - wearing only a Dry T Singlet Top - as I need to be aware of forming a body sweat barrier from me to you.   Please note though - that me in any state of Naturism should not be an expectation of the Massage Time.​

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To conclude ...

So now to just to confuse you about everything I have said on this page so far - I guess I need to say here - Does this mean that as the Relaxation Massage Therapist or Natural Healer - that I don't experience sensuous thoughts or arousal myself ? - Honestly - as a Gay Man - I would be 100 % remiss - if I said that I don't ever - so yes of course I do and I will say again - that to me - this is simply a natural and normal bodily reaction for Men during Sensuous Touch. 

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So it seems to be -  that a sensuous style of Massage - that is naturally inclusive of Lingam Touch & Naturism - is one of those things - that it is full of contraindications - and when combined with the many ways - that this style of Sensuous Massage is portrayed in Media Forms - individual perception does dictate...   

 

"It is this  - and  - it is that - all at the same time."

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The Massage Oil I use is ? 

Grapeseed Oil  -  a lightweight carrier oil - It does not clog pores and absorbs easily without leaving a greasy residue - while providing excellent glide and skin hydration - It is highly moisturizing and well-suited for a variety of massage techniques and skin types.​​

Key properties include:

  • Texture & Absorption:   thin and non-greasy - making it perfect for Relaxation Massage.

  • Nutrient Rich:   Contains high concentrations Omega-6 - Vitamin E and Polyphenols.

  • Skin & Tissue Health:   Exhibits anti-inflammatory - antioxidant and antimicrobial qualities that help soothe skin - protect against environmental stressors - and support skin barrier repair.

  • Aromatherapy Ready:   Almost entirely odorless - it seamlessly carries and blends with essential oils without altering their scent - Note - I do not use Essential Oils when Massaging.

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upon the canvas of the human body "

 

Availability Varies on

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avail everyday - It is best

to see this link for times

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change at short notice.

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