Lingam Touch is? | EnigmaticBodyMassage / Massage for Men / Man to Man Massage / Gay Male Massage / Avondale, Auckland, New Zealand.

Massage for Men.

Man to Man Massage.

Gay Male Massage Therapist.

Giving Focused Sensuous

Relaxation Massage for Men

for approx 15 years.

Diploma of Massage.

Relaxation Massage Certificate.

Wellpark Natural Therapy College, Auckland. N.Z.

Uniquely Enigmatic Touch.

What is Lomi Lomi and Swedish Massage?

Lomi Lomi style Massage.

is a traditional Hawaiian full body style of Massage - using long flowing strokes with hands - forearms and elbows movements that mimick calming movements of nature so as to release tension and improve circulation - while creating a strong focus on a holistic yet focused relaxation and healing for the whole person - body - mind and spirit.

Swedish style Massage.

is a gentle style of full body massage known for its strong focus on relaxation - that uses long flowing massage strokes - mixed with some light almost rhythmic style - and stronger manipulating style massage movements - so as to relieve muscle tension and improve cirulation - while calming the nervous system and releasing body tension and lift overall wellbeing.

Overall both styles of Massage Movements are similar - and help create what is a nurturing - grounding and intuitive style of sensuous touch - so as to release energetic mindfulness and physical body blockages.

What is Tantra verses Tantric ?

As I refer to the style of Massage on offer @ EnigmaticBody - as delivering a hint of Tantra - I need to distinguish what I consider are the key differences to what most men refer to when they think of Tantra - which seems to be that any touch that involves Lingam or Naturism is Tantric - which is not the case - so the easiest explaination I can think of to help clarify what each is - is as follows ..

Traditional Tantra is ..

the ritual practise of exploring our Inner Sensuous self via Touch or Calming sessions that are about an enlightenment of lifting your Inner Spirit - such as Yoga - Mediation - Relaxation Massage or even spending a day at a Naturist Beach - to me - all of these explore our sensuous self and body without the need to be sensual or sexual - and easily translate into the style of Massage on offer @ EnigmaticBody.

Modern/Western - Tantric is..

Often narrowly focused on a sole emphasis on the practise of sensual or sexual intimacy that is based on the exhange of Sensual Energy - while using conscious touch experiences where Naturism is shared - like Nuru style Massage Movements (Nude Body to Body) - or - when the Touch has a strong Sensual Intent of delivering a sole focus on teaching how to extend the time it takes to Orgasm or improve one Sexual skills - To me - The Tantric Practise places more emphasis on exploring a higher level of Erotic Sensual Ecstatic Experience - therefore @ EnigmaticBody - I do not consider anything on offer to fit within the Tantric Realm as described in this paragraph.

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What is The Lingam?

This is an Ancient Sanskrit Tantra term that simply translates to mean " Wand of Light."

In English, this is better known as - The Male Genitalia - (The Penis & Testicles).

It is said in these Ancient Sanskrit beliefs - that this natural inclusion of Massage for Men Awakens & Arouses the Kundalani Energy within - in simple terms - brings the sensuousness from within the body to the body's surface - which to me means - it simply helps to encourage the slow release of deep tension throughout the body - while overall creating a blissful and sensuous yet natural touch inclusion throughout the Relaxation time.

What is Lingam Touch - during Relaxation Massage?

Lingam Touch is a blissful sensuous inclusion towards the last quarter of the overall Massage Time - its inclusion is simply about giving all of the body the same respect during the Focused Relaxation Massage - which to me - simply aids the focus of the overall Massage - and that is Relaxation with Men in Mind.

In the 90 minute time option - this is approx 12 minutes long and in the 60 minute time option is approx 8 minutes long. If you prefer to have the Massage without the inclusion of Lingam Touch - then it is an easy change to deliver more of a hint of - however please note - this does need to be decided before the massage begins - as once I begin - I tend to immerse myself in the giving of the Sensuous Relaxation - and any change of mindset during the massage - may hinder the overall flow of the Massage - and therefore the intent of the Relaxation.

Note - the use of draping is also possible - see the notes under Naturism.

Lets start with - the questions - that I am often asked ...

"Is Release / Getting Off or Orgasm included as a given?"

It seems that when Naturism and Lingam Touch are inclusions of Sensuous Based Touch of any kind - that the perception of what occurs as a certainty - seems to be for most men - that this must lead to a mindset of the Touch being Sexual or Tantric in nature - and therefore the mindset gains a thought process that generally gives a certainty that a - Release / Rub-n-Tug / Getting Off / Orgasm - what ever you want to refer to it as - will 100% occur - so on this page I take the time to clarify what the inclusion of Lingam Touch and in a manner of speaking Naturism for you - are about during this style of Massage - and that for me - their inclusion tends to lean to a strong mindset focus of simply giving consideration to the style being a naturally sensuous yet holistic inclusive way of giving the whole body respect - while giving consideration to things like Arousal and Orgasm simply being normal and natural Sensuous needs for Men during any form of Sensuous Touch - while at the same time also considering - that during Relaxation Massage of this style these are not given with a Sexual or Tantric mindset as such - so it is important for me to distinguish the difference.

So - my reply to the question above ...

is always Yes and No - yes it may occur and yet it might not - as there are a number of reasons it may or may not occur during the Massage.

Keep reading guys ...

One reason I find Orgasm does occur is ...

Firstly - Arousal and Orgasm when the Lingam is given any form of focused touch is simply normal and natural - so if these happens - its okay.

To me - the most common reason these occur during a Massage is that - Most Men regularly Masturbate - and lets face it - this is usually with a sole focus of Orgasm in mind and it occuring quickly - so in turn this does not train the body and or mind to extended the time it takes to Orgasm - which simply translates to during a focused Lingam Touch inclusion - the same will occur as its normal for the reciepient - and that is normal - natural and okay.

So lets take a moment to explore when Arousal and Orgasm do not occur ...

To me - Orgasm is not actually needed to help achieve a deeply meditative relaxation - that is the role of the overall Relaxation Massage - however consideration does need to be given - that for some men - the whole style of Massage and or the inclusion of Lingam Touch being given by another man - may be a new experience - and there maybe a little nervousness present - or - maybe there is a medical reason that affects both Arousal and Orgasm not occuring - which by the way is more common than most men think - eg: Prostate Issues or you are taking medication that affects this - and that is normal - natural and okay.

eg: for myself - the medication I am on - often hinders this aspect of my own Sensual Self - so on the odd occasion when I have a Massage that is Sensuous in nature - with or without Lingam Touch included - it is not uncommon for me to not become aroused. If I feel in a Sensuous Mood when I'm having a Massage - it is more than likely I will be very aroused or the feeling of Arousal will come and go throughout the Massage - but I know in my mindset during Massage - I do not need to Orgasm to feel fully relaxed.

Similarly - I can enjoy a Sensual or Sexual Touch connection without the need for Orgasm to feel satisfied - even when I Masturbate - more often than not - I allow myself time to extend the time to Orgasm - and I believe for me - this is because I have transferred many of the Tantra aspects that I have learned over the years of giving Relaxation Massage - into my own Sensual or Sexual practises - which has simply trained my sensuous mindfulness to aid in extending the time it takes to Orgasm - in turn naturally translates to me enjoying the journey of getting there - rather than just the end result of the sensuous or sexual connection itself.

To me - both Arousal & Orgasm are simply considered normal and natural inclusions of the style of Massage I offer - after all these 2 things are simply bodily reactions that most men may experience during any kind of Sensuous Touch - add in that in my mindset I find when these do occur - they simply help the receiver relax and be themselves - and therefore the overall intent of the relaxation simply occurs with greater ease - so Yes in a manner of speaking - I do encourage them to occur - however I will note here that neither of these should be the receivers sole focus - or - for that matter be an expectation that these are a 100% a given - as thinking too much or having an expectation that these will occur - actually distracts from the overall intent of the Massage - which is a meditative and focused relaxation for you.

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Naturism & Sensuous Touch is about ...

To me - Naturism is a naturally holistic inclusion of everyday life - as it is one of the most natural things we can do - and besides we are all arrive into this world in a state of Naturism.

When I can - I often roam about at home enjoying Naturism - although I have to say here - these days not so much now that I am living in an Apartment Complex and closing curtains during the day is a pet dislike of mine - but most evenings I strip off and relax with a vino and a good movie or book. - So I guess to get my Naturism fix in summer now - you may find me @ my local Naturist Beach a little more than I have been in recent years - while enjoying the freedom of naked dips in the ocean - so refreshing while loosing those ugly winter tan lines.

Naturism for you during the Massage and allowing a little mutual Sensuous Touch - are to me about adding to the ambience of the Relaxation Time - so as to help create a space of Meditative Calmness - while being mindful of ensuring that the space we share at the time of the Massage - remains a safe and non-judgemental space - within the realms of Sensuous Relaxation - with Men in Mind.

If you are uncomfortable with being fully Naked / Nude in front of others - the use of draping is possible - simply ask at anytime during the massage - as I have a blanket under you / over the therapy table @ all times - however I will say here - that this may inhibit the natural flow of the Massage and therefore decrease the Sensuous Touch Focus of the overall Relaxation Intent - also to note - you still need to be Naked / Nude under the draping and 100% of the body won't be covered @ all times - as areas of your body while been massaged need to be uncovered - such as Glutes / Legs / Inner Thighs and back.

Do I give the Massage in Naturism as well ?

Generally for 1st visits I tend to remain fully clothed so as to in manner of speaking give a sense of professionalism - However as I believe mutual Naturism helps add to the ambience of the overall Relaxation Calmness - while helping the receiver to be more at ease during the Massage - I am comfortable with giving the Massage in partial Naturism so as to consider that for me - I need to be aware of forming a body sweat barrier from me to you - so I generally wear a Dry T Singlet Top - Please note though - that me in any state of Naturism should not be an expectation of the Massage Time.

To Summarize Lingam Touch and Naturism ...

So now to just to confuse you about everything I have said on this page so far - I guess I need to say here - Does this mean that as the Relaxation Massage Therapist or Natural Healer - that I don't experience sensuous thoughts or arousal myself ? - Honestly - as a Gay Man - I would be 100 % remiss - if I said that I don't ever - so yes of course I do and I will say again - that to me - this is simply a natural and normal bodily reaction for Men during Sensuous Touch.

So it seems to be - that a sensuous style of Massage - that is naturally inclusive of Lingam Touch & Naturism - is one of those things - that it is full of contraindications - and when combined with the many ways - that this style of Sensuous Massage is portrayed in Media Forms - individual perception does dictate...

"It is this - and - it is that - all at the same time."

Restore - Re-Energise and Relax ...

with a Sensuous Full Body Massage

within the ideology of what is a

Spirited yet Meditative and Focused

Holistic Relaxation with Men in Mind.

The Importance of Feeling Comfortable

during the Relaxation Massage time ...

To me, the style of Massage I offer - is one that fits with the many reasons individuals seek to book me - therefore as your Natural Therapy / Massage Healer - it is important that I consider that this is different for everybody - and I believe this is why over the years - I have built up a long standing and loyal client base - many of who still book now - even though I no longer operate on a full time basis.

While I am here - and before I go into my view on the Importance of Feeling Comfortable during your Relaxation Massage Time - if you recognise me from when I was operating as ManificoBodyMassage - which I began in 2011 and closed in 2023 - during which time I specialised in a style that was a different to what I now offer - in that compared to The EnigmaticBody Massage - The Manifico Tantra was a 2 or 2.5 hour Focused yet Sensuous and fully immersive Tantra Relaxation Massage that was naturally inclusive of Mutual Touch and Naturism and Nuru Body Touch (Nude Body to Body work) - Please note - that I no longer offer the Manifico or base my style with the Tantra Mindset that style offered - however - it goes without saying - that as Massage is one of my strongest life passions and the year 2026 marks approx 15 years since I began this blissful journey on a full time basis - add in my taking a break for a couple of years from 2023 to 2025 - so as to learn how to manage my Medical Diagnosis of Fibromyalgia - which I now generally manage well enough - that it does not affect going about my day to day - I am happy to say that I am back - with The EnigmaticBody Massage - even if it is now only on a casual day x day basis and not everyday - I now welcome you to come and relax with a style - that with my hand on my heart - I can say reflects a warmheart felt blend of my passion for massage and what I have learned since starting this blissful journey ...

Restore - Re-Energise and Relax ...

with

The EnigmaticBodyMassage

A Sensuous Full Body Massage

within the ideology of what is a

Spirited yet Meditative & Focused

Holistic Relaxation with Men in Mind.

Why Choose me as your Natural Healer ? ...

Maybe you are seeking a totally blissful time out of the daily grind to recharge - or you feel the need to refocus your sensuous energy - or it may be as simple as you miss being touched - or perhaps its is a little more involved - such as you have recently experienced or are even currently going through a personal trauma and need to slow down the clutter in your mind a little - or it might even be about seeking an experience of man to man touch that is not about a sexual mindset as such - rather it is with a mindset that may help you on your own journey of self discovery.

No matter what your reason is - rest assured my style and my overall approach to Massage with Men in Mind - is in delivering a naturally sensuous style of Focused Meditative Relaxation - and as such I give Massage with a relaxed open mindset around sensuous touch - naturism and the normal bodily reactions of men - that do naturally occur during touch of this nature.

In the many years of giving Sensuous yet Focused Relaxation Massage with Men in Mind - my motivations or enthusiam for what I offer - comes from my strong passion for the Relaxation aspects of Massage that in a manner of speaking - softly blends with and draws from my own personal experiences over my lifetime: - Such as marriage & children (married almost 20 years and I have 2 beautiful daughters who are now adults out there in the world on their own - (the youngest spending all of her school years on a 50 / 50 basis between both of her homes - until 2023 - at which time I became an empty nester - adjusting to living on my own for the first time in many - many years) - Coming Out (not my favourite term) at the age of 44 and finally finding my true self - A parent and far to many family members and good friends passing over simply far too early - then add in what I can now openly describe as my largest lifetime event - surviving what was an emotional and manipulating - volitile and sexually abusive same sex relationship of 6 years - which after it ended resulted in me throwing myself into all the wrong things over the following couple of years - as I did not realise the reality of what actually occured during the relationship - until I began to deal with what was to be a medical diagnosis of Chronic Fibromyalgia over the year of 2022 - while trying to maintain the business - finally confirming the diagnosis in early 2023 - and my having to make one of the toughest decisions of my life - to close ManificoBody and take some time off for a couple of years so as to learn to live with the condition - It was then recommended that I have Pain Management Counselling - as the condition affects the Body's Muscle Fibers causing full body pain and weakness on a constant basis at varying levels - it was while having this the relationship stuff came to the fore - leading me to have a years further counselling with a specalist for what occured over the time of the relationship.

A couple of years later - I now recognise all the symptoms of both the Fibromyalgia and the relationship stuff - and now manage all of this well enough to once again go about my day to day within the new limits of my body - and I am estactic to say this equals me coming back to my strongest life time passion - Relaxation Massage with Men in Mind - even if it is only on a Casual Day x Day basis.

Fast forward to now (2025) - I consider that none of the above - solely dictates who I am or how I live life or go about my day to day - these all only form a small part of me - and yes they may have changed my view point a little on life going forward - as in creating my new Living Mantra SLOWDOWNPAPI but LIVELOVELIFE - but the further along I go in my own life journey - the more I believe - that the more I allow myself to give focus to my Physical Body and Mindfulness Energy - as part of my general day to day - the more I am able to follow my Mantra - and the more I believe that incorporating things such as sensuous Mindfulness Touch based Relaxation Sessions or similar sensuous connective style body touch like Yoga - Meditation - Sensuous based Massage and even Sensuous Tantric or Sexual Connections - and - by changing my focus on how I keep myself reasonably fit which when compared to what was my strong and possibly excessive fitness regime prior to the medical diagnosis - to one of a more mindfulness focus and not how my body looks focus - the more my mindset adjusts to allow myself to delve into my sensuous self - while bringing a calmness to my inner spirit - and for me - that now by far outweighs the business or $$$ aspects of what I offer - especially now that I don't need to make a living as such from just Massage and overall that fits well with my Personal Mantra.

Before the Massage Commences ...

To help you feel comfortable - when you arrive and before we commence the Massage - I will always give time for a brief chat - during which I may simply catch up with you - or go over any Wellness matters I may feel need a little discussion - plus this is an opportunity for you to freely discuss any matter that maybe about the reason you have booked - regardless of how unique you may think it is - it is important to let me know - so I am aware of this throughout the Massage - I will add here that this is with confidentiality & only if you are comfortable to do so - and you can be assured - that I will do my utmost to be mindful and accommodating of our conversation during the Massage.

The following is said with a warmheartfelt kind of vibe ...

In return - when booking with me - I ask that you be considerate of - that even though I give the Massage with a Relaxed Sensuous Mindfulness - it is important for me to say here - that consideration needs to be given to the naturally sensuous aspects of this the overall style of Massage - and that the reasons for and the reactions to this style of Massage Touch are different for everybody - add in that for me - when giving Sensuous based Relaxation Massage - I consider the Sensuous Aspects to simply be natural inclusions of - simply helping to encourage the slow release of deep rooted tension throughout the whole body while being mindful of what most Men consider or expect during sensuous touch of this style.

Which leads me to the No 1 question I am asked ...

is this a full Sexual Service?

If you havn't already established this from the way I describe these natural inclusions throughout the website - then to be somewhat blunt and to the point here - the answer is simply - No.

Why is this my view of what is on offer? - To me - Sensual or Sexual Tantric Relaxation Connection is something very different to that of a Sensuous Tantra style of Relaxation Massage - and although in a manner of speaking - my view on this is somewhat relaxed on this topic - what maybe perceived as a full Sexual Service or as Sexual Tantric Massage Connection - is not something I have ever advertised or offered - nor will I do so in the future.

Therefore I respectfully state here ...

that if after you have viewed the content of this website and you have read this section - and you are still viewing what is on offer - with a mindset of - or - an expectation that reflects the Massage having a sole focus on being sensual / sexual - or for that matter having a sole focus on The Naturism or The Lingam Touch Aspects of - then I can honestly say here - with my hand on my heart - that I am not the right Massage Therapist - or as I prefer to say - Natural Healer for you.

While I am here - during Sensuous Massage - it is important that the personal sensuous boundaries of each person are respected at all times - and in instances where I feel that this does not occur - or - when requests to refocus the mindfulness within the context of the Relaxation Aspects of the Massage are ignored - and this maybe either during the booking process or during the booking time - then @ my discretion - I may decline or end the booking.

Thank-you for your understanding.

Namaste

Glenn

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