Uniquely Enigmatic Touch. 

Ahhhhhh ~ the Lingam ~ the part of the body, we men generally place so much focus on, more than any other part of our body and definitely more so, when it comes to being touched in any form of what maybe percieved as being sensuous, and that this seems to naturally lean to Lingam Touch having a sexual mindset for most men.  So on this page, I take the time to clarify,  how for me, Lingam Touch and Naturism are simply considered to be a naturally holistic way of giving the whole body the same consideration & respect, without judgement or the ignoring of what are simply, natural & normal reactions to this style of Massage that delivers a hint of Tantra Touch throughout the Massage, and for Men this may naturally be inclusive of Arousal and Orgasm. 

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Lingam is: ​

A Sanskrit Tantra term that simply translates to mean " wand of Light." 

In the English Language - the Lingam refers to the body area known as the Male Genitalia or commonly referred to as  - The Penis & Testicles.   

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During Massage - Lingam Touch is : 

Throughout the Massage, as the giver of, I naturally place a strong focus on the mindfulness aspects of my understanding of what Tantra is, which to me, is about ensuring the naturally Sensuous Touch aspects, especially with Men in Mind, simply put, ensure The Lingam is a natural inclusion of the Massage, so as to awaken & arouse the Kundalani Energy within the receiver; (in simple terms - bring the sensuousness from within - to the surface); while encouraging the slow release of deep rooted tension throughout the body, creating a beautiful and sensuous touch inclusion, in turn aiding the overall intent of this style of Massage with Men in Mind, being a meditative relaxation that lingers long after the Massage is over. ​

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Keep reading guys ... 

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​One of the questions, that I am often asked is ...   

Is Sexual Release; (orgasm) ; included as a given ? 

To me - both Arousal & Orgasm are normal and okay during a Sensuous style Massage, after all they are just simply a bodily reaction to touch, that men experience - plus in my mindset, I find when these do occur, they simply help the receiver relax & be themselves, in turn ensuring the overall intent of the relaxation aspects of the Massage, occur with greater ease - however neither of these should be the receivers sole focus or even for that matter an expectation, that they will definitely occur. 

again - keep reading guys ... 

​So lets take a moment to explore when Arousal and Orgasm do not occur ... 

Even though I consider Lingam Touch to be a natural inclusion, with a strong sensuous focus, consideration needs to be given, that for some men, this type of sensuous touch or even the massage itself, in particular when given by another man,  maybe a new experience, or, maybe there is a medical reason, or a little nervousness present, and when these merge with the overall meditative state that the receiver is usually in by the time the Lingam Touch part of the Massage is reached, it is not unusual for the sensuous mind & body,  to not quite sync in a sensual way, and therefore these don't occur.  To me, this is equally a normal & natural reaction of the moment, and  in reality,  shouldn't be given to much focus, as thinking too much, or having an expectation solely on either of these to occur, does actually distract from the overall intent of the relaxation for you. 

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For those that may feel uncomfortable with the inclusion of Lingam Touch & or Naturism ... 

then its an easy change to deliver more of a hint of, rather than a strong focus on, during the massage.  This does need to be decided before the massage begins, as once I begin, I tend to immerse myself in the giving of the sensuous relaxation, and any change of mindset during the massage, may hinder the overall flow of, and therefore the intent of - being relaxation.

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Also worthy of noting here is that... 

another question I am often asked - is -  Do I offer a sexual service.  In short - the answer is no. Sensuous Tantra is different altogether, and although I have delved into the Sensuous Tantra a little in the past, as in the form of a deeply rooted sensual meditative relaxation connection ; (no pun intended);  a full sexual service as such, is not something I have ever offered - nor will I offer in the future.  Any request for this - and I will decline the booking and block the number. 

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However - does this mean that I don't experience sexual thoughts or arousal myself?   As a Gay Man, I can honestly say here, I would be remiss in saying I didn't. So - yes - of course, on occasion,  I do.  Again to me - this is simply a normal and natural reaction to to the intimacy of the moment, along with having a nude male form in front of me, and when combined with the sensuous focus during the style of Massage, and that I also consider that a little mutual touch is simply normal during the massage, and that I am open minded in the giving of the Massage - then - then yes Arousal for the giver may sometimes occur.   Despite there being a sensuous focus during the massage - orgasm for the giver,  or anything more than what the Massage Description mentions is on offer  - should not be an expectation. 

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So it seems to be,  that a sensuous style of Massage, that is naturally inclusive of Lingam Touch & Naturism - is one of those things, that it is full of contraindications, and when combined with the many ways, this style of sensuous massage is portrayed in most media forms, individual perception does dictate...  "It is this  - and it is that - all at the same time."

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​​​​​​​​​​​Naturism & Sensuous Touch is about ... ​

To me - Naturism is a naturally holistic inclusion of everyday life, as being Nude / Naked is one of the most natural things we can do, so much so that you will often find me roaming about at home nude, or in Summer,  on occasion, I'll head to a local nudist beach and enjoy the freedom of naked dips in the ocean, in between loosing those ugly winter tan lines  ~ of course !  

 

In the giving of sensuous massage, I work with an open mind, within the ideology of Sensuous Relaxation Massage - which to me, is about the giving of a meditative calmness, while being mindful of ensuring the space we are in, remains safe and non-judgemental for both the giver and reciever, and where naturism and a little mutual touch within the realms of sensuous relaxation is okay.  Overall,  this must be mindful & respectful of any sensuous touch boundaries for each individual, so as to ensure no negative energy is created, as to me, when that occurs, is when I believe, the moment that the true intent of the massage, simply becomes lost in translation, and the overall outcome of the relaxation will not be as intended. 

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note: 

During the EnigmaticBody Massage - as the giver of the massage, to maintain a sense of professionalism, I generally remain fully clothed; (Shorts / Dry T Singlet).

On occasion, if I am conmfortable with doing so, I may choose to give the massage in only my Dry T, or even on occasion for evening bookings - I may join you in full Natursim, however, these should not be a an expectation of the massage time.