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Massage for Men.

Man to Man Massage. 

Gay Male Massage Therapist.

Giving Focused Sensuous

Relaxation Massage for Men

for approx 15 years.

AVAILABILITY,

BOOKING INFO​.

Availability is by Appointment

Only - Booking Spaces are

Limited and a Minimum

Notice Period Applies.

For Info - See the

AVAILABILITY PAGE.

Diploma of Massage. 

Relaxation Massage Certificate. 

Wellpark Natural Therapy College, Auckland. N.Z.

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Uniquely Enigmatic Touch.  

What is Lomi Lomi and Swedish Massage?

 

Lomi Lomi style Massage.

is a traditional Hawaiian full body style of Massage - using long flowing strokes with hands - forearms and elbows movements that mimick ocean waves or calming movements of nature - designed to release tension - improve circulation - while creating a strong focus on a holistic yet focused relaxation and healing for the whole person - body - mind and spirit. 

Swedish style Massage.

is a gentle style of full body massage known for its strong focus on relaxation - that uses long flowing massage strokes - some light focused rhythmic style - mixed with stronger manipulating style massage movements - that are designed to relieve muscle tension and improve cirulation  - while calming the nervous system - all designed to release stress - body tension and lift overall wellbeing. 

Overall the combination of both styles of Massage Movements helps in creating what is a nurturing - grounding and intuitive style of sensuous touch - so as to release energetic mindfulness and physical body blockages. 

What Tantra verses Tantric ? 

As I refer to the style of Massage on offer @ EnigmaticBody - as delivering a hint of Tantra - I need to distinguish what I consider are the key differences to what most men refer to when they think of Tantra  - and that is it being the same as Tantric - which it is not - nor I don't refer to the style as this - so the easiest explaination I can think of to help clarify what each is - is as follows ... 

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Traditional Tantra is ..

A ritual practise of exploring Touch sessions or Calmnig sessions that are about giving focus to a deeper understanding of - or an enlightenment of lifting your Inner Spirit - so for me Tantra is a sensuous yet calming practise - such as Yoga and Mediation or Relaxation Massage or even spending a day at a Nudist Beach  - to me - these are all good examples of what Tantra is. 

 

Modern/Western  - Tantric is..

Often narrowly focused on topics such as  - Tantric Sex or Tantric Massage - which  both place a stronger emphasis on the practise of sensual intimacy - such as conscious sensuous touch experiences like Body to Body or Nuru style Massage and practices where Naturism is shared with an intent of sharing Sensuous Energy Flow such as focused Tantric Breath / Sex work or a Focused Tantric Lingam Touch session that is about extending orgasm for as long as possible - to me though these practices are generally somewhat detached from the deeper spiritual meaning of what the practise is about.  

In summary - Tantra is the framework or in some interpretations - it is like the weaving of spiritual realization into daily life - while Tantric refers to the sensuous intimacy Touch methods of what is involved in that framework.

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What is The Lingam?

This is an ancient Sanskrit Tantra term that simply translates to mean " Wand of Light."

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In English, this ris better known as  - The Male Genitalia - (The Penis & Testicles).

It is said in Sanskrit beliefs - that this natural inclusion of Massage for Men Awakens & Arouses the Kundalani Energy within - in simple terms - brings the sensuousness from within the body to the body's surface - which to me means  - it simply helps to encourage the slow release of deep rooted tension throughout the body - while overall creating a beautiful and sensuous yet natural touch inclusion throughout the Relaxation time. 

​​​What is Lingam Touch  - during Relaxation Massage? 

 

Lingam Touch is a sensuous blissful inclusion towards the last quarter time period of the overall Massage Time  - and in the 90 minute time option this is approx 12 minutes long and in the 60 minute time option is approx 8 minutes long. 

If you prefer to have the Massage without the Lingam Touch inclusion - then it is an easy change to deliver more of a hint of - rather than a strong focus on this during the massage - however please note - this does need to be decided before the massage begins - as once I begin - I tend to immerse myself in the giving of the Sensuous Relaxation - and any change of mindset during the massage - may hinder the overall flow of the Massage - and therefore the intent of the relaxation - the use of draping is also possible - see the notes under Naturism. ​​

Lets start with - One of the questions, that I am often asked ... 

"Is Release / Getting Off or Orgasm included as a given?" 

 

It seems that when Naturism and Lingam Touch are inclusions of Sensuous Based Touch of any kind - such as the style of Massage on offer @ EnigmaticBody - that the perception of what occurs as a certainty - seems to be for most men - that this must leads to a mindset of the Massage being Sexual or Tantric in nature -  which without a doubt - matches the mindset for most Men that during any form of sensuous style touch is that - the Lingam is considered the most important body part and therefore the mindset gains a thought process that generally gives a certainty that a - Release / Rub-n-Tug / Getting Off / Orgasm - what ever you want to refer to it as - will 100% occur - so on this page I take the time to clarify how for me - what the inclusion of Lingam Touch and in a manner of speaking Naturism - are about during this style of Massage - and that for me - their inclusion tends to lean to a strong mindset focus of simply giving consideration to the style being a naturally sensuous yet holistic inclusive way of giving the whole body the same consideration and respect - while giving consideration to things like Arousal and Orgasm simply being normal and natural for Men during any form of Sensuous Touch - while also considering - that during Relaxation Massage of this style they are given without a Sexual or Tantric mindset as such - so it is important for me to distinguish the difference of what is is simply a natural inclusion of the style on offer - with an intent of delivering a massage that will ... 

Restore - Re-Energise and Relax ...

with

The EnigmaticBodyMassage - A Sensuous Full Body Massage - within the ideology of what is a Spirited yet Meditative & Focused Holistic Relaxation with Men in Mind.

So - my reply to the question above   ...  "Is Release / Getting Off or Orgasm included as a given?"  - my answer is always Yes and No - as there are also a number of reasons it may or may not occur - so to clarify a little - one reason I find it does occur is some men masturbate more frequently and when they do - it is usually with a sole focus of orgasm occuring  - so it simply translates that during Lingam Touch - the same will occur.   Now when  Orgasm doesn't occur during Lingam Touch - this maybe a result of having a mindfulness focus on wanting this to happen - which then unintentionally removes the overall intent of what the Massage is all about - which is a Focused Meditative Relaxation for the Mind and Body - so the urge or need for Orgasm is simply reduced - and that is also a normal thing to happen. 

 

To me - both Arousal & Orgasm are simply considered normal and natural inclusions of the style of Massage I offer - after all these 2 things are simply bodily reactions that most men may experience during this style of Sensuous Touch / Massage - add in that in my mindset I find when these do occur - they simply help the receiver relax and  be themselves - and the overall intent of the relaxation simply occurs with greater ease - so Yes in a manner of speaking - I do encourage these - however I will note here - that neither of these should be the receivers sole focus - or - for that matter be an expectation that these are a 100% a given - as thinking too much or expectation that these will occur - actually distracts from the overall intent of  the Massage - which is a meditative the relaxation for you. ​

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So lets take a moment to explore when Arousal and Orgasm do not occur ... 

 

Consideration does need to be given - that for some men ... It may be a new experience for you to be given Lingam Touch by another man and there maybe a little nervousness present -  or - maybe there is a medical reason that affects both arousal and orgasm not occuring - which by the way is more common than most men think - eg: Prostate Issues 

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Orgasm is not actually needed to achieve a deeply rooted relaxation - no pun intended  -  eg: for myself when I have a Massage that is sensuous in nature -  with or without Lingam Touch included I can become very aroused yet simply enjoy the sensuous touch without the need for Orgasm to feel relaxed - similarly I can enjoy a sexual connection in the same manner - and I believe this is because I have transferred many of the Tantra aspects of Relaxation Massage that I have learned over the years -  into my own sexual practises - eg: Masturbation - and I have trained my mindfulness to aid in extending the time it takes to Orgasm - so I can enjoy the journey in getting there in when I meet for sensuous or sexual connection.

 

All of this above is okay - natural and normal - not to mention that to me - when any of what is mentioned in the above paragraph  - merge with the overall Meditative Calmness that the receiver is usually in by the time the Lingam Touch part of the Massage is reached - it is not unusual for the Sensuous Mind and Physical Body to not quite sync in a sensual way - and therefore neither occur - which to me is an equally normal & natural reaction of the moment - and again - there should not be to much focus given to this anyway. 

Also worthy of noting here is that... 

another question I am often asked - is -  Do I offer a sexual service?. 

In short - the answer is  - No I Don't - as Sensual or Sexual Tantric Relaxation Connection is something different to that of a Sensuous Tantra style of Relaxation Massage - and although in a manner of speaking - my view on this is somewhat relaxed - what maybe perceived as a full Sexual Service or as Sexual Tantric Massage Connection - is not something I have ever advertised or offered - nor will I do so in the future. 

 

So now to just to confuse you about everything I have said on this page so far - I guess I need to say here - Does this mean that as the Relaxation Massage Therapist or Natural Healer - that I don't experience sensuous thoughts or arousal myself ? - Honestly - as a Gay Man - I would be 100 % remiss - if I said that I don't ever - so yes - of course I do - and I will say again - that to me - this is simply a natural and normal bodily reaction for Men during Sensuous Touch. 

So it seems to be -  that a sensuous style of Massage - that is naturally inclusive of Lingam Touch & Naturism - is one of those things - that it is full of contraindications - and when combined with the many ways - that this style of Sensuous Massage is portrayed in Media Forms - individual perception does dictate...   

 

"It is this  - and  - it is that - all at the same time."

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Naturism & Sensuous Touch is about ... 

 

To me - Naturism is a naturally holistic inclusion of everyday life - as it is one of the most natural things we can do - and besides we are all naturally born in a state of Naturism.

 

When I can  - I often roam about at home enjoying Naturism - although I have to say here - these days not so much now that I am living in an Apartment Complex and closing curtains during the day is a pet dislike of mine - but most evenings I strip off and relax with a vino and a good movie or book.  - So I guess to get my Naturism fix in summer now - you may find me @ my local nudist beach a little more than I have been in recent years - while enjoying the freedom of naked dips in the ocean - so refreshing while loosing those ugly winter tan lines. 

Naturism for you during the Massage and allowing a little mutual Sensuous Touch - are to me about adding to the ambience of the Relaxation Time - so as to help create a space of Meditative Calmness - while being mindful of ensuring the space we are in - remains safe and non-judgemental - within the realms of Sensuous Relaxation - with Men in Mind. ​ 

If you are uncomfortable with being fully Naked / Nude in front of others - the use of draping is possible   - simply ask at anytime during the massage - as I have a blanket over the therapy table @ all times - however I will say here - that this may inhibit the natural flow of the Massage and therefore decrease the Sensuous Touch Focus of the overall Relaxation Intent  - also to note - you still need to be Naked / Nude under the draping and 100% of the body won't be covered  - as areas of your body while been massaged will be uncovered - such as Glutes / Legs / Inner Thighs and back.   

Do I give the Massage in Naturism as well ?

Generally for 1st visits I tend to remain fully clothed so as to in manner of speaking to give a sense of professionalism - However as I believe mutual Naturism helps add to the ambience of the overall Relaxation Calmness - while helping the receiver be more at ease during the Massage - I am comfortable with giving the Massage in partial Naturism  - however @ all times - I generally wear a Dry T Singlet Top with the intent of helping to form a body sweat barrier from me to you - Please note though - that me in any state of Naturism should not be an expectation of the Massage Time.

​Restore - Re-Energise and Relax ...

with

The EnigmaticBodyMassage - A Sensuous Full Body Massage - within the ideology of what is a Spirited yet Meditative & Focused Holistic Relaxation with Men in Mind.

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To Book Now

Txt Glenn on 

021 735 293

 

​Location​

My location is right in the Heart of Avondale - approx 10 km from the CBD in a Secure Entry Apartment Complex. There is a range of Free 120 minute Street Parking within 100 mtrs - or - a 240 minute Free Public Shopping Parking area within 150 mtrs - No On Site Visitor Parking - easy Pedestrian Access - Bus is 50 mtrs / Avondale Train Station is located 550 mtrs away.

Map Location Indicator is approx only.

 

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