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Why Choose me as your Natural Healer ? ...

Maybe you are seeking a totally blissful time out of the daily grind to recharge - or you feel the need to refocus your sensuous energy - or it may be as simple as you miss being touched - or perhaps its is a little more involved - such as you have recently experienced or are even currently going through a personal trauma and need to slow down the clutter in your mind a little - or it might even be about seeking an experience of man to man touch that is not about a sexual mindset as such - rather it is with a mindset that may help you on your own journey of self discovery. 

 

No matter what your reason is to consider booking with me - rest assured my style and my overall approach to Massage with Men in Mind - is in delivering a naturally sensuous style of Focused Meditative Relaxation - and as such I give Massage with a relaxed open mindset around sensuous touch - naturism and the normal bodily reactions of men - that do naturally occur during touch of this nature.   

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To me - the style of Massage I offer - is one that fits with the many reasons individuals seek to book me - therefore as your Natural Therapy / Massage Healer - it is important that I consider that this is different for everybody - and I believe this is why over the years - I have built up a long standing and loyal client base  -  many of who still book now - even though I no longer operate on a full time basis. 

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While I am here - and before I go into my view on the Importance of Feeling Comfortable during your Relaxation Massage - if you recognise me from when I was operating as ManificoBodyMassage - which I began in 2011 and closed in 2023  - during which time I specialised in a style that was a different to what I now offer - in that compared to The EnigmaticBody Massage - The Manifico Tantra was a 2 or 2.5 hour Focused yet Sensuous and fully immersive Tantra Relaxation Massage that was naturally inclusive of Mutual Touch and Naturism and Nuru Body Touch (mutual Nude Body to Body work) - Please note - that I no longer offer the Manifico or base my style with the Tantra Mindset that style offered - however - it goes without saying - that as Massage is one of my strongest life passions and the year 2026 marks approx 15 years since I began this blissful journey on a full time basis - add in my taking a break for a couple of years from 2023 to 2025 - so as to learn how to manage my Medical Diagnosis of Fibromyalgia - which I now generally manage well enough  - that it does not affect going about my day to day - I am happy to say that I am back - with The EnigmaticBody Massage - even if it is now only on a casual day x day basis and not everyday - I now welcome you to come and relax with a style - that with my hand on my heart - I can say reflects a warmheart felt blend of my passion for massage and what I have learned since starting this blissful journey ...​​​​​​​​

 

A little Bio of My own life Experiences over recent years...

In the many years  of giving Sensuous yet Focused Relaxation Massage with Men in Mind - my motivations or enthusiam for what I offer - comes from my strong passion for the Relaxation aspects of Massage  - and that in a manner of speaking softly blends with - drawing my energy for Massage from my own personal experiences over my lifetime. 

 

Such as ...

Marriage & children - married almost 20 years and I have 2 beautiful daughters who are now adults out there in the world on their own - (the youngest spending all of her 13 school years on a 50 / 50 basis  - going between both of her homes until 2023 - at which time I became an empty nester - while adjusting to living on my own for the first time in many - many years). 

 

Coming Out (not my favourite term) at the age of 44 and finally finding my true self.   

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A parent and far to many family members and good friends passing over simply put - too early.

 

Then add in what I can now openly describe as what I consider to be my largest lifetime event within a very short time period - and that was living within what was an emotional and manipulating / volitile and sexually abusive same sex relationship of approx 6 years  - It was not until after "he" finally left in 2020 that I realised what had occured - (literally the weekend before we went into the 1st Covid Lockdown) - however @ the time - my head / mindset wasn't in the right space to think to much about any form of what had happened with regards to the relationship - as like every single person in the world - I was suddenly in covid chaos - from my daughter in amongst the largest and 1st Covid Cluster as a pupil @ Marist College - to sorting out the roof over my head and thinking about what the hell I was going to do with no income as we went into the Lockdown.  Once that lockdown ended and I slowly restarted Massage - I began to realise the reality of what had actually occured during the relationship  - and as a result  - I threw myself into all the wrong things - with a mindset to try and bury the events of the last 6 years - something I now understand was actually about me simply seeking - Self Assurance - Then aged 57yrs with a very young life attitude and a very fit body / stamina - with an attitude of - "F#ck you to him"  - I buried myself into some rather risky behaviour which continued for a couple of years. 

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Then as suddenly - during the year 2022 - my body wasn't keeping up anymore -  and during that year  - I had many medical tests  - from MRI's - Scans - Physical Body Movement Tests to regular monthly blood tests  - that all simply kept coming up with Negative results -  all while constantly getting told I was considered well above average healthy infact @ the level of 20 years younger  - it wasnt until late 2022 that I was referred to a Rheumataology Specialist - which lead to a Medical Diagnosis of  - Chronic Fibromyalgia  - which I was advised is caused by long periods of stress on the body  - mind and very possibly Covid itself as I had had it 3 times by then  - not to mention 3 of the Vaccinations required to be allowed to work - so it all added up to  - what occured during the relationship and in some way the major life events that occured throughout my life all the way back to my strict up-bringing during my childhood and one parents lack of acceptance of my life choices as a Gay Man - had in someway each contributed to strain on the Body's Auto-Immune and Nervous System - something I now fully understand.

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So all of a sudden - I was dealing with having to slow every aspect of life down - while trying to maintain the business levels I needed to live off  - but going slower and slower with each week that passed and by early 2023 - I ended up having to make one of the toughest decisions I had - had to face in a long while - and that was to close ManificoBody and take some time off  - so as to learn to live with the condition  - before it got worse. 

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Soon after closing - It was then recommended by the Rheumatology Specialist - that I have Pain Management Counselling - as the condition affects the Body's Muscle Fibers causing full body pain and weakness on a constant basis at massively fluctuating levels - so I needed to re-train my mindset and my body to match the now required much lower energy output levels  - so as to cease the sudden energy crashes and back then constanlty increasing pain - and it was while having the Pain Management Counselling  - that the relationship stuff came to the fore again in leaps and bounds - leading to the Specialist recommending that I have Counselling with a Relationship / Sexual Abuse Specialist and solely with a focus on what occured over the Relationship period - so I did - attending weekly sessions @ Burnett Foundation over the year of 2024 - something I am so grateful for as it has massively cleared my mind of  - not just the relationship trauma - but of all life events. 

 

A couple of years later - I now recognise all the symptoms of both the Fibromyalgia and the relationship stuff -  and when these occur - I now know how to manage these well enough  - to once again go about my day to day  - while remaining within the limits of my body - so I guess in a manner of speaking - this equals me no longer do anything with excess  - instead placing a strong focus on keeping my body in a constant state of calm on a daily basis - which I am estactic to say  - equals me coming back to my strongest life time passion - Relaxation Massage with Men in Mind - even if it is only on a Casual Day x Day basis and not everyday.

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Fast forward to now - I can now say - that I do not consider that any of the above  - solely dictates who I am or how I live life or go about my day to day - these all only form a small part of me - and yes they may have changed my view point a little on life going forward - as in living by my new Mantra-  SLOWDOWNPAPI but LIVELOVELIFE - but the further along I go in my own life journey - the more I believe  - that the more I allow myself to give focus to my Physical Body and Mindfulness Energy - in a calm manner as I go about my general day to day - the more I am able to follow my Mantra - and the more I believe that incorporating things such as sensuous Mindfulness Touch based Relaxation Sessions or similar sensuous connective style body touch like Yoga - Meditation - Sensuous based Massage and even Sensuous Tantric or Sexual Connections - and  - by changing my focus on how I keep myself reasonably fit  - which when compared to what was my strong and possibly excessive fitness regime prior to the medical diagnosis - is now one of a more mindfulness focus and not how my body looks focus  - the more my mindset adjusts to allow myself to delve into my sensuous self -  like I used to before all of the above - bringing a calmness to my inner spirit - and for me - that now  - by far outweighs the business or $$$ aspects of what I offer - especially now that  I don't need to make a living as such from just Massage  - and overall that fits well within my Personal Mantra. 

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