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Why Choose me as your Natural Healer ? ...

Maybe you are seeking a totally blissful time out of the daily grind to recharge - or you feel the need to refocus your sensuous energy - or it may be as simple as you miss being touched - or perhaps its is a little more involved - such as you have recently experienced or are even currently going through a personal trauma and need to slow down the clutter in your mind a little - or it might even be about seeking an experience of man to man touch that is not about a sexual mindset as such - rather it is with a sensuous mindset that may help you on your own journey of self discovery. 

 

No matter what your reason is to consider booking with me - rest assured my style and my overall approach to Massage with Men in Mind - has for many years been about delivering a naturally sensuous style of Focused Meditative Relaxation - and as such I give Massage with a relaxed open mindset around sensuous touch - naturism and the normal bodily reactions of men - that do naturally occur during touch of this nature.   

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To me - the style of Massage I offer - is one that fits with the many reasons individuals seek to book me - therefore as your Natural Therapy / Massage Healer - it is important that I consider that this is different for everybody - and I believe this is why over the years - I have built up a long standing and loyal client base  -  many of who still book now - even though I have somewhat changed the style I offer and now after many years fulltime - only operate on a casual basis. 

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While I am here - and before I go into my view on the Importance of Feeling Comfortable during your Relaxation Massage - if you recognise me from when I was operating as ManificoBodyMassage - which I began in 2010 / 11 and closed in early 2023  - and during which time I specialised in a style that was a different to what I now offer - in that compared to The EnigmaticBody Massage - my core product back then was The Manifico Tantra with the most booked being either a 2 or 2.5 hour Focused yet Sensuous and Fully Immersive Tantra (not Tantric) Relaxation Massage that was naturally inclusive of Mutual Naturism and Nuru Body Touch (mutual Nude Body to Body and Touch work) - So it is important for me to distingush here that I no longer offer the Manifico or base my style with the Immersive Tantra Mindset that I once offered - however - it goes without saying - that as Massage is one of my strongest life passions and the year 2026 marks approx 15 years since I began this blissful journey - including taking a break for a couple of years  - from 2023 to 2025 (during which time I only offered outcalls) - so as to learn how to manage my Medical Diagnosis of Fibromyalgia @ the time - which I now monitor and manage well enough  - that it generally doesn't affect how I go about my day to day.

 

so now ...

I am happy to say that I am back - with The EnigmaticBody Massage - (even if it is now only on a casual day x day basis and not everyday) -  and I now welcome you to come and relax with a style - that with my hand on my heart - I can say reflects a warmheart felt blend of my passion for massage and what I have learned since starting this blissful journey ...​​​​​​​​

 

A Bio of  - My own Life Experiences ...

In the many years  of giving Sensuous yet Focused Relaxation Massage - my motivations or enthusiam for what I offer - comes from my strong passion for the Relaxation and or Meditative aspects of Massage with Men in Mind  - and that in a manner of speaking softly blends with my drawing energy for Massage from the many personal experiences over my lifetime ... So below I take a bit of time to give a broad picture of these  - with a strong focus on the years since I began this holistic touch journey ... as I believe these years have the strongest influence on why I carry on with Massage with the same passion I have always had for what I do - even if it is only - once again more on a casual hobby basis. 

 

Such as ...

Before I started offering Massage  - I was married for almost 20 years  - from which I have 2 beautiful daughters who are now adults out there in the world on their own right ... the youngest spending all of her 13 school years on a 50 / 50 basis between both of her homes until late 2022 a year after she finished High School  ...  at which time I kind of became an empty nester - while adjusting to basically living on my own for the first time in many - many - years. 

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All through the years of marriage - I was in Hospitality Managment - working my way up to runnning a boutique hotel in New Plymouth for a couple of years - to jointly owning a prominent Cafe in New Plymouth (where I am from - have lived in Auckland for over 35 + years with a few short years back in NPL kinda mid way point to start a family)  - all the way up to the largest position I held in my Hospo Career - Operations Manager of a 31 strong Franchise Cafe chain in NZ - owned by an Australian Co.    It was while I was there when only a few years in - that my marriage ended when my youngest was only 3 yrs old - and her mum and I started sharing custody  - then a few years on - my Ozzie Boss came to me and said - "Glenn we need you to restructure NZ  - we have bought another Company in NZ and need to merge all roles."   So after 8 years of travelling both here and into Oz land on a constant basis - I decided it was time for me to spend some time on the ground at home & reset  - "me" - so I put myself on top of the Redundacy List and promptly took some time off - to initially re-train in Natural Health - my other life interest  - as I had got a diploma in Massage way back when I was like 30 years old - so only had to do a refresher Massage Course - and I have never looked back - starting the Massage fulltime in 2011 - best decision I have made in a very very long time. 

 

Coming Out (not my favourite term) at the age of 44 (during my years as Operations Manager)  - and after some initial hiccups in how I felt - for which to help clarify for me - I joined workshops with Outline  - and ended up doing a couple of years on the Telephone Help Lines with them - plus tried to start a GayDads group which didn't take off at all.  Took me a further year to talk to my family and close friends - as by then I was finally feeling comfortable in my  own skin - and I never looked back. 

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A parent and far to many family members and friends passing over  - simply put - too early.

 

Then add in over 6 years until early 2020 - I was in what I can now openly describe as  - to be my largest lifetime event - and that was living within what was an emotional  - manipulating -  volitile and sexually abusive same sex relationship - It was not until after "he" finally left in early 2020 that I realised the full extent of what had occured - his leaving literally the weekend before we went into the 1st Covid Lockdown - however @ the time - my head / mindset wasn't in the right space to think to much about any form of what had happened during those 6 years - as like every single person in the world - I was suddenly in covid chaos - from my daughter in amongst the largest and 1st Covid Cluster as a pupil @ Marist College a week ahead of the lockdown - to sorting out the roof over my head and thinking about how I was going to navigate this period of time as we went into the Lockdown.  Lockdown was a godsend for me - it gave me time to think and put a plan of action in place - so once that lockdown ended and I slowly restarted Massage - I could begin to slowly find myself and rebuild life again - but instead the reality of what had actually occured during the relationship  - hit like a large scale storm  - and as a result instead of seeking help right then and there - I very quickly threw myself into all the wrong things - with a mindset to try and bury the events of that time - something I now understand was actually about me simply seeking - Self Assurance - Then aged in my mid 50's yet with a very young life attitude and a very fit and healthy body  - I had an attitude of - "F#ck you to him"  - I buried myself into daily gym & spin bike sessions  - as well as some ummm I'll just say rather risky behaviour which continued for approx a year  - all while hiding everything from family / friends and carrying on the Massage Business without even my most regular clients being aware of anything - until early 2021 @ which time a move to a new place presented itself with an opportunity to simply be  - just me and my youngest daughter - no flatmates or partners  - and finally - some much needed just bliss moments for me ! 

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Then as suddenly - around the middle of 2022 - my body wasn't keeping up with the Trauma of the last few years -  so with the full support of my doctor - many medical tests occured - MRI's - Scans - Physical Body Movement Tests to regular monthly blood tests  - that all simply kept coming up Negative -  all while constantly getting told I was considered well above average fit and healthy  - infact @ a level 20 years younger of my actual age - it wasnt until late 2022 that I was referred to a Rheumataology Specialist - which quickly lead to a Medical Diagnosis of  - Chronic Fibromyalgia  - which I was advised is caused by long periods of stress on the body and mind  plus in some part - Covid itself which I had 3 times - and the Vaccinations of which I stopped at no 3 - and also in some part a serious Car Accident I had in my early 30's which landed me in hospital for a little while  - it all added up to a constant level of Trauma throughout my life - so things were beginning to make sense and in some way the major life events as far back as my strict up-bringing during my childhood and one parents lack of acceptance of my life choices as a now Gay Man - had all in someway contributed to the strain on the Body's Auto-Immune and Nervous System - then it smply suddenly telling me to stop - something I now fully understand and live by. 

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So  - in early 2023 - I began to review life so as to slow every aspect of it down - while trying to maintain the business levels I needed to live off  - but going slower and slower with each week that passed and within a few weeks  - I ended up having to make one of the toughest decisions I had - had to face in a long time - and that was to close ManificoBody and take some time off  - so as to learn to live with the condition  - before it got worse and stopped me living altogether. 

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Soon after closing - in early 2023 - It was recommended by the Rheumatology Specialist I was seeing - that I have Pain Management Counselling with their Psychologist - as the condition affects the Body's Muscle Fibers causing full body pain and weakness on a constant basis at massively fluctuating levels - so I needed to re-train my mindset to match the now required much lower energy output levels of my body  - so as to cease the sudden energy crashes and back then constanlty increasing pain - and it was while having the Pain Management Counselling  - that the relationship stuff came to the fore again in leaps and bounds - leading to the Psychologist recommending that I have Counselling with a sole focus on the Relationship and the now known Sexual Abuse that had occured over the Relationship period - so I attended weekly sessions @ Burnett Foundation over the year of 2024 - something I am so grateful for as it has massively cleared my mind of  - not just the relationship trauma - but of all life events. 

I know regulary volunteer @ The Burnett Foundation on the Condom / Testing Kit packing evenings - which are a heap of fun with a bunch of like mind Queer people. 

 

A couple of years later - I now recognise all the symptoms of both the Fibromyalgia and the relationship stuff -  and when these occur - I now know how to manage these well enough  - to once again go about my day to day  - while remaining within the limits of my body - so I guess in a manner of speaking - this equals me no longer do anything with excess  - instead placing a strong focus on keeping my body in a constant state of calm on a daily basis - which I am estactic to say  - equals me coming back to my strongest life time passion - Relaxation Massage with Men in Mind - even if it is only on a Casual Day x Day basis and not everyday.

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Fast forward to now - I can say without reservation - that I do not consider that any of the above solely dictates who I am or how I live life or go about my day to day - these all only form a small part of me - and yes they may have changed my view point a little on life going forward - as in how I live by my new Mantra - SLOWDOWNPAPI but LIVELOVELIFE - but the further along I go in my own life journey - the more I believe  - that the more I allow myself to give focus to my Physical Body and Mindfulness Energy - in a calm manner as I go about my general day to day - the more I am able to follow my Mantra - and the more I believe that incorporating things such as sensuous Mindfulness Touch based Relaxation Sessions or similar sensuous connective style body touch like Yoga - Meditation - Sensuous based Massage and even Sensuous Tantric or Sexual Connections - and  - by changing my focus on how I keep myself reasonably fit  - which when compared to what was my strong and possibly excessive fitness regime prior to the medical diagnosis - is now one of a more mindfulness focus and not how my body looks focus  - the more my mindset adjusts to allow myself to delve into my sensuous self -  like I used to before all of the above - bringing a calmness to my inner spirit - and for me - that now  - by far outweighs the business or $$$ aspects of what I offer - especially now that  I don't need to make a living as such from just Massage  - and overall that fits well within my Personal Mantra. 

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Booking Guide & Availability​

These days I no longer rush to accept bookings  - as my Availabilty is now very much on a casual day x day basis and I am not available everyday - A minimum notice period is requested / Booking Times and Number of are limited - therefore it's best refer to the Booking Guide Page  - for everything you need to know to consider when Booking - This page is kept up to date with Availability changes  - Booking Terms Apply - Thank-you in advance for your understanding.

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