I've been choosing peace over people lately. So far, no regrets.
- glennbatten63
- Aug 10
- 1 min read

In fact, it’s been one of the most freeing and necessary decisions I’ve ever made. I used to stretch myself thin trying to keep everyone happy — silencing my needs, ignoring my instincts, and tolerating behaviors that disturbed my mental and emotional well-being.
Maybe it's just an age thing - but these days, if it costs me my peace, it’s too expensive & llike my finances - my physical body and mindfulness are on a budget.
I no longer feel the need to explain myself, beg for understanding, or hold onto people who constantly misunderstand me. I’m not abandoning anyone — I’m simply choosing myself.
I’ve learned that peace isn’t found in the presence of others, but in the absence of chaos, and recently - I’ve walked away from conversations that left me feeling less about myself or have me questioning my worth, and environments where I had to shrink just to belong, and with every boundary I set, I feel stronger. With every disconnection, I gain more clarity.
Peace doesn’t require noise, attention, or approval — it just requires honesty, intention, and courage. And right now, I’m giving myself all three.
If that makes me perceived as distant or selfish in the eyes of others, so be it.
Because I know the truth: I'm not losing people — I’m finally releasing what was never meant to be - And in return, I'm regaining my own self.
No regrets. Just peace. And that’s more than enough.



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